Isn’t it so damn easy to answer in the affirmative? It pleases everyone, it spreads positive energy, it fills hearts with joy. But it is the easy choice; not always the best.
It takes more than a normal heart to say a bold no, when it is so easy to say yes and solve problems. But don’t we regret the next second after letting yes flow out of our mouth because we are so weak to let that No resound in the air.
Yes makes you good, yes makes you acceptable in society, yes makes you everyone favourite, yes makes you nice, yes makes you sweet, but No gives you identity.
To say No to a bunch of red rose with love filled petals, to say No to a blackmail laced with love, to say No to the ultimate temptation, to say No to the request of a loved one because you think the answer is No, to say No when your heart says yes and your brain says No, to say No because you think the answer is a big No, and to say No when you expect the other one to say yes, takes courage.
Yes is easy, but No has a class. No is the negative word, No breaks heart, No creates distances may be not coverable in a lifetime, but have the courage to say No, if you are sure it allows you to be yourself.
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