chapter 11 perspectives

Perspectives always interest me a lot. to hear two sides of a story is almost always like hearing two different things. it is so interesting to see how opinions and views can alter the way different people perceive the same thing. one important lesson i learned recently is you can never see anyone who is having exactly the same perspective a you have. if some one told you 'exactly what i was thinking'
BEWARE.
they are lying

if someone reacted the way u expected them to i tell you they did that just to satisfy u and in their mind they might have had a good laugh about it.
if someone says 'How True' to something u say please ask them why do u think so too.... most of the time they wouldnt have an answer, or they would simply repeat whatever u said. i know i am sounding a little skeptic. i intent to sound so. i simply dont trust them. my journalism teacher mr frammolino says, 'if your mother says she loves you, ask her for proof'
i am not that skeptical about anything, but i simply cant believe anything because I am sure i am right about people. you might say something very important to someone and be satisfied with the way He/She has reacted, only to find they dont even have a vague recollection of what you said. you might say something very confidentially to someone who vouches secracy only to leave you there and spread the story everywhere. you might tell an incident to someone and think they completely sided with you only to be fooled by them, for they would have formed an opinion about you which is nothing but negative.

and if you find out someone who fooled u like this what do u do?
ignore it and behave naturally?
accuse them of it?
stop having anything to do with that person again?
realise your mistake and never repeat it?
i think the last one is the most feasible solution.